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Aita For Leaving After My In Law Asked Me To Move Out Because I Didn T

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aita for leaving after my in law asked me to move out because i didn t

Two years ago, my sister passed away, leaving behind two boys, David (12) and Peter (7). My brother-in-law was struggling to juggle everything, and he was looking to hire a maid to help care for the kids. I couldn’t stand the thought of someone else raising them when they’re my blood, so I offered to step in. For two years, I’ve been taking care of them as if they were my own. Every day, I’d wake up early, make their breakfast, clean the house, do the dishes, wash their clothes, feed and care for the 50 chickens on the property, all while managing my own studies. I did it all without a complaint.

I wanted to, because I loved them and wanted to keep my sister’s memory alive through them. One Sunday, after two years of doing everything without a single mistake, I went out for a walk. I asked David (now 14) to prepare lunch, which was a simple meal. He said he could manage, and I trusted him. It was the one day my brother-in-law was off from work, so I thought maybe he could help too. A few hours later, I got a call from my in-law, and to my shock, he told me to start looking for a new place because, in his words, I wasn’t helping enough.

All because I asked David to handle one meal, one time, in two years. I was crushed. I thought I had done everything right, but apparently, that one day was enough for him to decide I wasn’t good enough. I didn’t argue or fight back. I packed my things and left quietly. Now, my in-law is angry that I left without a word.

AITA for leaving after everything I did, just because I didn’t cook lunch one time? A 29-year-old Reddit user has shared on the social media platform how her 32-year-old sister-in-law lied about losing her job to her and her husband, and stayed with them. But when the Original Poster (OP) discovered the truth and asked her to leave, she was called out for being “heartless and unsympathetic.” Now, the OP, under the username Bluelockfanatiic, is seeking advice from other Redditors and wants to know if she’s an “AITA for not allowing her to stay after the lie?” The woman posted on Reddit’s "Am I The A*****e" (AITA) forum that her sister-in-law “Melanie” is “kind of difficult. She's always been dramatic, but things have been worse lately.”

She elaborated, “A few weeks ago, she told us that she got fired and was having money problems. She begged my husband (28M) and me if she might come and stay with us until she was better off.” I (36M) have been married to my wife, Emily (34F), for five years. We have a wonderful son, Noah (5), who is paralyzed and requires a lot of care and attention. Our lives revolve around managing his needs while also trying to maintain some sense of normalcy in our family. Recently, Emily’s parents have hit a rough patch.

They’re facing financial difficulties and have hinted at needing to move in with us. Two weeks ago, Emily brought up the idea of having them stay with us “for a little while” until they can get back on their feet. I was taken aback because our home is already filled with the demands of caring for Noah, and I’m concerned about how adding two more adults to the mix will impact our family dynamics. I told Emily I was hesitant because her parents can be quite overbearing and don’t always respect our boundaries. She assured me it would only be for a couple of months, and they would help out with some of the household responsibilities. To compromise, I agreed to let them stay for one month, but I emphasized that we needed to keep our routines for Noah’s sake.

Well, her parents moved in last weekend, and it’s been overwhelming.

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