Aita For Going Home After My Inlaws Excluded Me From Dinner At Reddit

Crandi Man

-Oct 17, 2025, 6:43 AM

aita for going home after my inlaws excluded me from dinner at reddit

I f26 went on a 'family trip' with my inlaws 2 weeks ago. MIL always thought that I am a bit 'ignorant' and 'backward' and that just because I come from lower class family (compared to hers) that I have no etiquette. After we arrived to the hotel, They arranged to visit a fancy restaurant for dinner, My husband avoid telling me and I learned it last minute after he had already got dressed. I asked where he was going and he said he & family were going to eat out but I wasn't invited because his mom 'assumed' that since I wouldn't be familiar with the food... I didn't argue I just let him go then I packed and took the first flight home. He freaked out and called many times and when he found out that I went home, he blew up snd called me ridiculous and irrational to do this.

Even said that I acted in an ungrateful manner and embarrassed him in front of his family after he literally begged to have me go on the trip. <img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-230914" src="https://twistedsifter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/Screenshot-2023-12-26-at-11.52.22-PM.png" alt="Source: Reddit/AITA" width="800" height="361" title="Her In Laws Exclude Her From A Fancy Dinner Because They Think Shes Low Class, So She Takes The First Flight Home" /> Y’all, there are stories on Reddit are wild every single day. It’s a joke that people on AITA are always encouraging divorce, but sometimes… OP is from a lower class upbringing, while her husband’s family has money. She has always known this was something of an issue for his parents.

I f26 went on a “family trip” with my inlaws 2 weeks ago. My mother-in-law always thought that I am a bit “ignorant” and “backward” and that just because I come from lower class family (compared to hers) that I have no “etiquette.” Hi Everyone! I (30M) have been married to the wife (30F) for almost 3 yrs...2 yrs ago, I moved to the other side of the country (US) for wife's job. She and her family are from the Middle-East. Her sister lives in the next state over.

Each time they've visited, they go out as a family to dinner/brunch at a nice place without me. I expressed it made me uncomfortable and felt disrespectful especially considering they were staying here. This continued to happen with every visit. I expressed my increasing discomfort and anger with each occurrence. Cue current visit. They are to be here in our home from Thursday-Tuesday.

After work, at 7:45 I go out to the deck for a smoke and to decompress. 8:25PM MIL comes to the deck and tells me dinner reservation is at 8:30 and to get ready. No one told me anything? I go upstairs and wife is getting ready in a room. I pop in and incredulously ask her why she didn't tell me about dinner?? Her response was:

"You could have asked, couldn't you?" I tell her this is incredibly rude. She said this is about FIL's birthday. I go to my desk for more work and ask wife to let me know when she's done getting ready.

Aita For Going Home After My Inlaws Excluded Me From Dinner At Reddit

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